When is it time to let go? Is the break up the end all be all? Do you think that after break up sex will fix the issues? Whats your stance on sex after the relationship ended?
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Dr Reason asks.......
When is it time to let go? Is the break up the end all be all? Do you think that after break up sex will fix the issues? Whats your stance on sex after the relationship ended?
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I think when there is point that there is constant arguing or just a feeling of not wanting to be around that person, it is time to let it go. At this point the relationship has ran its course and it is just time to let it go. Now SOMETIMES, the relationship just needs a boost. The couple may have just gotten into a rut because of jobs, having kids, family issues, etc. In those cases they may not be devoting as much time to EACH OTHER as they need to and the relationship is suffering. Now if these issues lead to constant arguing or not wanting to be around the other person, the relationship just needs to end. I'm not a believer in "staying around for the kids". Those type of relationships can lead to damaged kids. I'm not saying it's a given but who the hell wants to grow up seeing their parents fight all the time?
ReplyDeleteI don't think after-break up sex really fixes the issues but people can still be attracted to their ex and it just happens. I don't really see a problem with it. Sex will not fix their issues and feelings might actually still be there BUT that doesn't mean those two people are meant to be together. At that point it is just sex. Now if they choose to try and work it out again, then so be it, but sex itself will not fix the issue. But if they want to do it, fine. "Some say the ex/ makes the sex spec-/Tacular"... Notorious B.I.G.
**REMIX** The time to let go is when you feel it's time to let go. Most of the time we know that time but ignore it for whatever reasons, taking the situation to a level of degradation that's a danger to yourself or the other person. After break up sex cannot fix anything other than a lack of sex. If anything it's a detriment to the post break up healing process. **REMIX**
ReplyDelete100% agree...I have a firm policy on ex's , and thats a no, no. You always know when its time to end that chapter. When you get that feeling like you want to run. You need to evaluate your situation and figure out what the issues are. Are they something you CAN work through and are WILLING to work through? It's best not to waste each others time and emotion and just move it along....
ReplyDeleteDr. Wallbanger~How dare you come in here with all that common sense! Who the hell do you think you are? I agree. It especially can hurt the healing process for the other person if you have turned into a cold, heartless, ass hole who doesn't care if the other person base jumped off of a Grand Canyon cliff with gravity turned to maximum and no parachute. Ahh, but the smile it will bring to YOUR face, as you laugh knowing you have given pleasure, received pleasure and caused a World War VII level of pain to their emotions. Revenge, keep refrigerated. Best served COLD. Trifling bitch. Uhhhh...ummm...that's not my story by the way...just heard it somewhere...
ReplyDeleteI think a relationship is over when u sometimes both parties exhausted all options and its just not working. I've learned through my travels that post break up sex only complicates a already complicated situatuion. The problem often lies in the fact that a lot of women use their vaginas as a tool to get whatever their after. So when they offer it as a chance to reel me back in they often get aggressive with me when I don't call the next day idk maybe I just think different
ReplyDeleteSee you can't let the vagina control you. If you know anything about weapons, then you know that vagina is the most powerful thing on this earth. Hydrogen bombs are water balloons by comparison. It wrecks homes, it destroys lives, and it turns GROWN ASS MEN into suckers. And yes, I have been victimized by it. BUT NO MORE!
ReplyDeleteYou must not look into the vagina's eyes, for they will entrance you. You will buy the vagina stuff. You will engage in the Love That Dares Not Speak it's name. You will take it out to eat. You will take it to the movies. You will introduce the vagina to your family. But make no mistake about it, if you don't have self control that vagina will own YOUR life. It will make you angry and you will make it angry. And then, it will only come harder (double entendre). It wants you and your soul. You have to fight the vagina. You have to keep your feelings out of the vagina while you have your manstick in it. Because heaven knows, if you give it manstick and feelings it will BRING YOU DOWN. Beware the vagina. Exercise caution. That way you can treat the vagina the way YOU want to treat it.
Simply wow and lol
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