There can only be one! There's one King of the castle not two. There's a King that heads up the home, who makes the most important decisions. There's a Queen. The number two of the house hold i say number two because that individual follows the orders of number one. There's some input from number two, and number one might make decisions based off of those suggestions but, number one ultimately has the final say. A good king will be king no matter the situation. So what the queen makes more money than the king(to be clear im not talking the queen is taking care of the king, he holds his own financially) he is still the king.... Share your thoughts
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Dr Reasons' Statement of the Day:
There can only be one! There's one King of the castle not two. There's a King that heads up the home, who makes the most important decisions. There's a Queen. The number two of the house hold i say number two because that individual follows the orders of number one. There's some input from number two, and number one might make decisions based off of those suggestions but, number one ultimately has the final say. A good king will be king no matter the situation. So what the queen makes more money than the king(to be clear im not talking the queen is taking care of the king, he holds his own financially) he is still the king.... Share your thoughts
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nahhh, not so much! I'm ok with a man runnin his kingdon , just as long as his decisions are considerate of the others that are involved...With that being said... You guy don't tend to make the greatest decisions in the world, as a matter of fact your the cause of much of the distress going on in the world as we speak so please (e.g.. ww1 , 2 and damn near 3) , please listen to your mothers, sisters, and lovers and take what we have to say serioiusly. Unless she's a dumb broad...then , maybe not so much...
ReplyDeleteHa! ok i see your point. Men don't always make the best decisions, but a good man knows how to admit his mistakes and knows how to fix em. But a strong home needs to be lead by a strong leader one who isn't afraid to make hard decisions whether it be to get three jobs to pay the mortgage or something as simple as the grocery budget; and a woman should encourage such man. Miss D you say you don't mind but there are plenty of women that are so scarred of being submissive to their man that they end up dividing their own home.
ReplyDeleteMen are the leaders. Thats the design the creator intended. Your girl should be like ur top advisor. She may have the best idea, but the man should be the only one pressing "the big red button" on most big decisions.
ReplyDeleteIf she doesnt want me to lead(which is my natural trait), then why the f__k am i here?
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But if women ran the world, women would start wars over other women wearing the dress they wanted, other women starting at their man, or trying to compete to be noticed by someone. Yeah, we men make some bad decisions but usually when we do there is SOME base in LOGIC.
ReplyDeleteWW1, WW2, and damn near WW3, were over control, power, and resources. It's logical even if it is f*cked up. Women don't really tend to think strategically a lot of the time and you can see this on display EVERYDAY. The chick with four kids, wondering why her babies daddies aren't around. (Ummm duh, you were just ass to them) The chick who knows her man cheats but chooses to stay. (Because "At the end of the day, he comes home to me.")Those are EMOTIONAL decisions and thoughts,not logical. Women would have the world f*cked to hell in short order. And they know it! LOL!
On the real though, I don't want a woman I can run over. Because if she starts doing EVERYTHING I ask, then she in turn might EXPECT me to always be around. I don't want that level of comfort around me. I think it should be completely 50/50 and that means compromise. If you are not willing to compromise then you should stay out of a relationship. Of course, you can ALWAYS maintain 100% control by staying single. No masters. No slaves.
DR CEl- great post: your last paragraph. I totally agree with not wanting a female i can simply run over but like One-O said a female that will challenge my decisions but know at the end of the day it is just that: my decision. Some ladies really struggle with this concept. They've let being independent turn them into master and commander, and thats good when they are own their own, hell i even welcome those traits into a relationship but you have to let a man be a man. there can't be two men in a relationship whether its homo or heterosexual, some one has to be submissive. And Cel your absolutely right being single is WAY easier. Thats my path to happiness and glory!!!
ReplyDeleteDr. Reason~Very true.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on that One. Every woman wants a man that can lead. But a man is not capable of leading just any kind of woman. The ones you know that seem like they want all the power... Well there's a man out there that can conquer that one.... He just may not be you. I'm just saying. Kudos fellas, Love the responses!
ReplyDeleteMiss. D your absolutely right, theres someone for everyone. but the women who want all the power will ultimately buckle for a man. Either that or they will settle for suckers who they will continue to run over...then eventually fuck some random dude that she know will smack her for talkin outta place.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha! yep!
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